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Benefits of Spending Time with Family and Friends

There is nothing like spending quality time with the people you love. Whether it’s a weekend getaway, a special dinner, or just taking a walk around the block, time spent with family and friends always leaves us feeling good.

In this article, I’ll share some of the benefits of spending time with family and friends, from strengthening our relationships to improving our mental health. So go ahead and make plans to spend some time together – I promise you won’t regret it!

What are the benefits of family time?

The family is the basic unit of society. More than just a group of people who share blood relations, families provide individuals with a sense of identity and belonging. In today’s fast-paced world, it can be easy to lose sight of the importance of family time. However, there are many good reasons why spending time with loved ones is essential.

1.  Improves communication

One of the benefits of spending time as a family is that it can help to improve communication between family members. Family time provides an opportunity for parents to bond with their children. By talking and sharing experiences together, parents can teach their teenagers or children of any age important life lessons and values. In addition, spending time with siblings and other relatives can help to strengthen familial bonds and create lasting memories.

Something this is often under estimated in families is actually knowing them and understanding them. A family needs to get to know each other, it is not just emotionally but more who they are as individuals.  

Family and friends over for my son's birthday party. All having a good time in the pool.

Additionally, spending time together can also help to resolve conflicts and improve problem-solving skills. For example, as a married couple we change each year with every experience and even though you with your person most of the time, you not really ‘with’ them all with time.

You know what I mean? Like If my hubby and I do not take the time to ‘date’ each other at least once a month then we kinda ‘feel’ that need to reconnect. Very much like a battery recharge, it is necessary to touch base with family and get to ‘know’ them.

2.  Promotes family bonding

Family time also promotes bonding between family members. Bonding is the process by which people form emotional attachments to one another. When families spend time together, they have opportunities to bond with one another through shared experiences and activities. This can help to create strong emotional ties between family members that can last a lifetime and also build strong bonds to strengthen a marriage.

This quality time is time that is spent focusing on one another and enjoying each other’s company without distractions such as work or electronic devices. Quality time is important for building strong relationships and creating lasting memories .Of course, family time doesn’t have to be all serious discussion; simply being together and enjoying each other’s company is its own reward.  

In short, taking the time to invest in family relationships is always worthwhile.

My family and I posing for a Christmas photo shoot.

Effects of not spending time with family

Many of us are guilty of not spending enough time with our families. We get wrapped up in work, school, extracurricular activities, and social lives, and before we know it, months have gone by without quality family time. While it may not seem like a big deal at the time, the effects of not spending time with family can be long-lasting and significant [1]. Not only can it lead to feelings of loneliness and isolation, but it can also damage relationships.

Family members may begin to feel like they are not important to you, which can lead to arguments and resentment. In addition, not spending time with family can make it difficult to keep up with important life events, such as births, weddings, and funerals. If you find yourself neglecting your family, try to make more of an effort to spend time with them.

Yes life gets in the way and it may be difficult at first, but find the time anyway; it will be worth it in the end.

Why friends are important in our life   

Friends are an important part of our life for many reasons. They provide us with support, both emotional and physical. They are a source of stability during times of change, and a shoulder to cry on during times of sorrow. They also help to expand our horizons, introduce us to new experiences and challenge us to grow. In short, friends play an essential role in our lives.

They make us laugh when we’re feeling down, and help us to celebrate our successes. They provide a listening ear when we need to talk and are always there to lend a helping hand. Simply put, friends are the family we choose for ourselves, much like a spouse. And that is why they are so important in our lives. 

My parents holding my kids while I was taking a picture of them together.

Benefits of spending time with others

Well, I mean I’d like to be on an island and I’m pretty sure my hubby goes to one in his head on bad days but it is said that ‘no man is an island’. This means that humans are social creatures that need the company of others to thrive. There are many benefits to spending time with others. For one, it can help to reduce stress levels. Spending time with loved ones can help to release oxytocin, a hormone that has calming and stress-relieving effects [2].

In addition, spending time with others can also help to boost mood and improve overall mental well-being. Being around others can provide a sense of belonging and connection, which can be particularly beneficial for those who are feeling lonely or isolated.

Furthermore, spending time with others can also lead to opportunities for personal growth. By spending time with those who have different backgrounds and outlooks, we can learn new things and expand our worldview. Ultimately, the benefits of spending time with others are vast and varied.

So next time you’re feeling lonely or stressed, make sure to reach out to your friends and loved ones – it just might make all the difference.

Picture of hubby, Jaden and myself on a plane to holiday destination, one of the  benefits of spending time with family and friends.

Wrapping Up

So there you have it! Spending time with loved ones has more benefits than just making us feel all warm and fuzzy. The next time you’re feeling like you need a pick-me-up, give your friends or family a call – your brain will thank you for it.

All in all, the benefits of spending time with family and friends are clear. Not only will you enjoy amazing memories and experiences, but you’ll also reap the rewards of better physical and mental health.

So what are you waiting for? Go spend some quality time with your loved ones!

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Charlie

Charlene is a published author/writer who has embarked on a personal journey, with the hope of providing guidance, support and advice to all who may need it.

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